boi! I have! a mess! datin some dad ten years older than me, everything is cute and dandy except he’s very very busy and it makes me sad. very sad. but how can I be sad about it when it’s time he’s spending on his kids? idk what to do bro. He’s a good and decent dude so if I say I can’t do this I know he’ll be extremely kind about it. I feel so torn. Right now I’m waiting to see if I feel better in a couple weeks. Is that a good idea?

SURE…. Go with tHAT…..

hey if your still giving relationship advice can you help me? i have had a crush on this girl for months. earlier in the summer i asked her out and she said no lol (rip my heart). i still have a crush on her and and a friend over heard that she’s looking for a relationship now. should i go for it?

Uh only go for it if u like her and truly wanna b with her?? Don’t date someone just to “date them”. Dating someone takes a lot of work and commitment and I hate how ppl are not serious about it anymore. Cause that shit will fuck with someones feelings. If you wanna have fun and experiment then yeah ask her first and go for it if she says yes but in general I’d say no.

Thanks Ava 💞 and what you said in the tags, when I ask you for advice (bc I have before too) I’m not like expecting you to know everything and have all the answers it’s just nice to get someone else’s outside opinion! So the people that get mad at you over the advice you give can honestly lick my asshole!! -🦋

NO PROBLEM HONEY ❤ and oh licking assholes doesnt sound fun but mood!!!!

i have a friend that thinks we’re dating no matter how many times i’ve told her that i’m not into her romantically (esp bc i’m going thru a rough breakup rn) and she still claims that we’re soulmates and i literally didn’t know what to do bc i’ve been Dead honest w her for weeks abt how i feel so i stopped talking to her slbfksn does that make me a bad person tho ??? i feel guilty but she doesn’t get it and i feel like i’m suffocating tbh

no that does NOT make you a bad person. She is not respecting your boundaries whatsoever especially during a hard time in your life. I would definitely tell her to change her act or not be her friend. But yeah continue to not talk to her!! Maybe she will sit and realize that it is wrong to be pushing that shit onto u esp when its not true and that u arent into her. ik that you may feel guilty but not talking to her is for ur OWN benefit!! ur happiness matters the most esp if she is not respecting ur boundaries. i hope it gets better soon ily ❤

The thing is I have told him multiple times and he’s not pushing for anything (I don’t think) it’s just I feel bad?? Like he respects that I’m not interested in him in that way but I almost feel like by being friends w him I’m holding him back from “getting over” me (even tho there’s like zero things to get over) but I also don’t know if that’s stupid and I’m just overthinking this.. -🦋

well theres nothing to feel bad about? like u arent doing anything wrong! i mean its up to him on what he wants to do because he is the one who likes you. if you want to sit down and talk to him about it go for it? i just dont know what to say cuz u didnt rlly do anything! and yeah itd suck losing a good friend but if it is to his own benefit so be with. but yeah id def sit down and talk to him???? if hes “not pushing for anything” and “respects that u arent interested in him” there r zero things to feel bad about and ultimately it is up to him to like get over u like its not ur problem at all! good luck ❤

Ok so I have this friend who I know has a crush on me but I don’t feel the same way at all.. he’s super sweet n everything (obv I wouldn’t be his friend if I didn’t think he was a good person) but I’m just not into him and he’s also 17 (I’m 19) so like yea no that’s just not happening. I’ve told him I don’t like him like that but that I still think he’s great and stuff but I know he’s still into me (pt. 1)

I just don’t know if it’s like mean to keep the friendship going (we’re pretty close) or if I should distance myself from him because of how he feels… nd like this weekend we were both rlly drunk and he told me the way he felt about me was like the song happier by Bastille & marshmello and like that’s sweet but also I want him to be happy and also NOT HAVE A CRUSH ON ME IDK idek what I’m trying to ask here.. fuck !! (Pt. 2) -🦋

ngl ur just gonna have to straight up tell him dude im not interested in you at all. id rather b friends. and if he like doesnt want that then its better to go separate ways. like yeah hes gonna b heartbroken and shit but like if he wants to lose a good friend go ahead. like u clearly told him ur not into him idk how he cant get that into his thicc head but go off

I had no friends for months and I finally met new ones and now they’re trash and say I’m distant and cold when they literally never ask how I am or just do normal friend things and I’m just sad it’s my last year at school and now I gotta find new friends again

im sorry honey!!! i mean idk the whole situation but maybe evaluate how u acted towards them? cuz u could have possibly come off as distant and cold to them without realizing it/not meaning to! but i mean if they make u unhappy its best to bounce! i wish u good luck and am sending u good vibes ❤

Ok so today my fr*ends wanted to talk me at lunch and then said that I’m heterophobic lmao and said I don’t like one of their bfs bc he’s “a cis white man” which I didn’t say but MOOOD,,, 2 of them r racist as fuck and she wanted me to apologise for being mad at someone for saying the n-word bc “it was just in a song”….. girl I’m too tired and gay for this shit

UHHH DONT B THEIR FRIENDS ANYMORE WHAT THE FUCK? ? ? ?

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