i think i’ve developed feelings for a really, really close friend. i know that they like me back. but i don’t want either of us to admit it to eachother. i feel like we both just know because of the way we look at eachother and because of the way we act together. i just feel empty when i’m not around them, help.

um if they aint going to tell u ur going to have to tell them…like nothing will go anywhere if u dont tell them???? and if u feel like they have the same feelings too, it shouldnt b hard to confess u like them. 

wolf

Wolf – Do you have an inner monster? oh for sure. and i think we all do. i started going to therapy again and i really like my therapist so hopefully he can help me with combating my monstersssssssssss 

tinderbox

Tinderbox – What do you cherish most? my friends, my family. people who care about me. my pets. just nature in general. the fact that i get to see the sunrise and sun fall every day. making people laugh and be happy. seeing people i love succeed and find happiness

im sorry can i ask for some advice? i feel like u might help! i dont need anything super Professional or detailed, just a new perspective maybe? its a bit serious so im super sorry to burden u skjd but i wanna ask how do u get over a person u were convinced was Meant to be with you? someone that u felt all the “signs” were pointing to? someone u genuinely loved? but that person loves someone else, and only see me as a friend. how do i stop the “what ifs” and the “maybe i should try harder”

ew did i send this to myself i hate this. well minus them loving someone else. UM NGL LIKE THATS SUCH A SHITTY SITUATION??? imo id legit like not affiliate urself with the person anymore just because thats hard to deal with. like it rlly is. and rlly the only way to stop with the what ifs is to somehow change ur mindset but thats hard so tbh leaving them would b the only thing i could do. im kinda in a similar situation just they arent in love with someone else. it just sucks with the circumstance we r in but yeah if they like someone else id just disband urself from them UNLESS u can get the what ifs out of ur head and just b their friend. and if u cant bare the thought of only being their friend then id go bye bye