Tag: ask me stuff

Tulip & hydrangea & ginger? 💕

tulip – lucky number? probably 3!

hydrangea – proudest moment? moving 15 hours away from home and surviving my first year of college all on my own…now im onto my second year and in my own APARTMENT…i may had some shitty ass days but im happy with how far ive come

ginger – least favourite food? probably like sweet potatoes or brussel sprouts idk tbh 

help I just ended an 8 yr loving relationship bc I am a pos and cheated and felt v guilty but I think I’m falling in love with the other guy and he lives six hours away and is talking to me less and less and I don’t know what to dooooooooo

first off idk what pos means all ik is that it means point of sale

second if ur saying UR the one who cheated sorry i hav no respect for someone who cheats no matter the circumstance

not trying 2 b mean but cheaters suck. good luck (: 

can u give me some advice pls? I had a friend for 5yrs nd last week I cut him off. hes a manipulative person that prided himself on this, hurt ppl I love, blamed his mental illness nd never changed his behaviour. he was shit to me nd I never even realised. our whole relationship formed from him using me as a therapist when I was 15 nd threating to kill himself constantly. im finding it so hard losing him, we were so close im so angry Id hav done anything for him he didnt even care when I let go

I’m really sorry that happened to you! But I am happy you are out of that toxic friendship! Honestly no one believes this but I believe it: all you need is time. It really does heal all wounds. You’ll meet better people in the future. You’ll strive to be happier. There are genuine people out there and I’m sorry you were in that situation for so long. Letting go is hard honestly and forgetting is unattainable, but time can help u let go. Surround yourself with other friends and family! Distract yourself!! It will get easier! I wish u luck💖

aw lol sorry, there’s a lot of missing context that makes it much less worthy of that reaction. I am an old fuck, he’s just older. and I also have another boyfriend, and a girlfriend, so it’s not like I’m looking for monogamy. The only issue is like, am I chill with the extra patience this will take, or am I just incapable of going slow. Wow there’s no way you can relate to this can you. I’ll dip. sorry/

I mean its fine????? Just yeah if u dont tell me the full story dont expect a legit answer that

could help u. Id just wait it out and see how it progresses and c if u r patient! Good luckp

boi! I have! a mess! datin some dad ten years older than me, everything is cute and dandy except he’s very very busy and it makes me sad. very sad. but how can I be sad about it when it’s time he’s spending on his kids? idk what to do bro. He’s a good and decent dude so if I say I can’t do this I know he’ll be extremely kind about it. I feel so torn. Right now I’m waiting to see if I feel better in a couple weeks. Is that a good idea?

SURE…. Go with tHAT…..